Hey everyone! Hikari's back and i have gotten the world solved! No not quite. Anyway i logged on a couple minutes ago and haleluyah there he was. So i pinged him really quick with a simple comment trying to sound like i didnt care: "Where the hell have you been?". Turns out he has had the flu. Big bummer. i went through the whole im sorry that must suck, etc. etc. Anyway now i know what's going im relieved. But we only have 3 days left and i hope he's better by then. Everyday without him at school is soo.... awkward. And quiet. I'll try to stay happy and hope he gets better. But i have had it with school and i think im a little over anxious for school to end. I tried to make him feel better by telling him i thought he got sick of school because it's gotten so boring. he didn't really say much, i guess i need to come up with something else to talk about before he logs off again *sobs*. For now i can just wait for school to end and hope for the better.
Hikari
P.S. Another issue that worries me a bit. Even though we still have a couple years before we can choose what to do with our lives, Ty is already asking people what to do after HS. Now i already know what i want to do but i also have more proof than most people and i know the people at the college i'd like to attend. But the problem is, since Ty doesn't have much in the means of interests he keeps asking people if he should join the military. And i know its not my choice and i am a too critical of a person but i still think that's not a good choice. I never like military related things, but of course im a girl. So i dont know its not my choice and i can't tell him anything rude or he might hate me but what would you do if the guy you liked asked you if he wanted to join the military???
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Ah! So he really was only sick, or he still is. So he won't go to school the next 3 days? Oh no.. I hope he gets better.
So i pinged him really quick with a simple comment trying to sound like i didnt care: "Where the hell have you been?" Uhm.. lol why that? you could have just said something like: "Why didn't you come to school, I was really worried..."
or "OMG.. it is sooo boring without you here in school" <--- you know that doesn't sound that serious, I think you can tell him that when you see him online or maybe phone him - if you can of course ^^
You can say something like "I hope you'll get better, I#m looking forward to see you in school again" or so.. you get the point do you? ^^
About the military thing. If a guy would ask me that I guess I would immediately say no xDD And yes, probably because I am a girl. I really don'tlike this military thingie, so I don't want this...
Any way, if he asks you for your opinion, then say what you think. Because I think he cares about what you think about that.. So don't hold back and tell him that you don't really like him going to military and I don't know your reasons.. I just think it is really hard going to military. Maybe he will chnge his opinion, you know there are still some years left.
And it is not rude when you tell him this, because that is what you think right? And I don't think he will hate you just because of this.
Well, good luck, see you! ^^
Carrie
waa, great for you turned anything out right ^^
@ Carrie: You'll too check out my blog? would be relieved...I created one because some other friends of mine who were worried about me but I couldn't meet that often wanted to be keeped updates, so I thought it would be a good solution.
@koroii: Yeah somehwat carrie is right about the part with your prentending not to care in a way, but I know it...I'm somewhat also again a little depressed you might say, but the post will be too long I'll set it into my blog...
Then about the military. I'm completely against it, but why would he like to make the choice just now?!Well, the other way I agree just to say to him what you think...
Well, hope to see an comment from both of you ^^ Good luck!
tokomi
Well i did tell him how i felt about the whole military thing... TWICE even! Even his emotionally scarred friend said no. But he still doesn't understand why he shouldn't.
My reasons:
-It's not like his video games, in real life killing is a uncurable disease that will hurt you for life
-Good chance you'll get yourself killed
-It requires lots of discipline (which he definetly does not have)
-It's not all fun and games, its a million times worse than school
-And... you'll get yourself killed
So yup. please read the next post i have last night IM coversation.
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